Mainstreaming Autism

  I dream of a world where my six year old can have a tantrum in the park and instead of frowning with disdain, onlookers would at minimum recognize spectrum behavior and at best be sympathetic, perhaps informed or even





Choosing My Battles – My Autism Spectrum Disorder Family

My seven year old – yup he is a year older – jumps on his bed a lot. When he does, I simply say to him, “Beds are made for sleeping.”  I don’t get excited and yell “Stop!” or “No!”





Tantrum Interventionist 2.0

Tantrum Interventionist 2.0…   My eleven year old’s behavior fluctuates moment by moment.  He tantrums.   Sometimes in the morning when he opens his eyes waking up, I see that look on his face… his countenance and demeanor… I just





3 Tips for New School Year Complaints

I read this great article at one of my favorite sites:  https://www.empoweringparents.com/blog/ By Marney Studaker-Cordner, LMSW “But I don’t want to start school!” I’ve heard my teenage daughter utter that phrase at least a thousand times in the past week. Well,





Social Story Books by Swanky Brain

Why Social Stories Work… Why do they work?  Here are a couple reasons:  Children on the spectrum are visual learners; so a Social Story with vibrant supporting pictures immediately resonates.  Just as important is the choice of words used in the





Josh’s Boredom Box

Winter School Break has begun…  I’d decided to spend the holidays at home relaxing, for a much needed r&r with my family. That’s before I realized that we have 3 weeks vacation!  Yikes!!!  Naturally, the dreaded “B” word was spoken





The Wand of Silence!

A Way To Experience Moments Of Peace And Quiet… There are moments in your day or week or month when life gets overwhelming and you simply need time to yourself!  In those moments, an effective tool I’d like to suggest you utilize





The Potty Party Bag!

Time Proven Tool in Behavior Modification! Today, it’s called “The Potty Party Bag!”  Sixteen years ago, it was called “The Telephone Prize Basket!”  My daughter is now twenty years old… when she was four I was Sales Director for a





“Empathy, Enabling or Empowering?”

Here’s what I know… I understand without any doubt or confusion that when my ten year old son is tantruming wildly, even sometimes ferociously; or when my daughter misplaces her homework yet again; or when my five year old son





When They Soar!

This is such a beautiful story… One of courage and determination!  When kids on the spectrum succeed, it gives us a collective feeling of pride and hope.   Link:The Boy Who Couldn’t be a Cub Scout I urge all parents